elementary, dear Watson, elementary

At least once in each of our relationships, we do or say something we know , deep down, is not the way to go. Instinctively we all know how to play the game, but for some or other reason we consciously jeopardise sabotaging what is important to us. 

We allow our emotional fantasies to cloud our players instincts .How many times do we swamp the play with our impatience?  Look at the hunter.....he lies in wait for the prey , and doesn't jump up before he is 100% sure he has his desire fully mesmerised and ready for him.  Just like the fisherman who lets' the fish play on his line ...reeling it in, then letting it swim out on the line...that moment of triumph when the fish thinks it is getting away...and then when he is off his guard...reel him in.

Life, love , relationships are just the same ..same rules...same successes....until we stuff things up. Sound familiar?   tell me about it.